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Conversation Prep

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Use this for everyday conversations, not situations where raising an issue could put you at risk. If you fear retaliation or harm, consider support from a qualified local service or the U.S. National Domestic Violence Hotline.

Example: After dinner, the conversation stopped when I asked about weekend plans.
Example: I felt dismissed and then angry at myself for bringing it up.
Example: I want enough notice to plan rest, not a guaranteed yes.
Example: Could we decide weekend plans by Thursday evening?
Example: If we cannot decide by then, I will make my own Saturday plan.
Example: I can say I need twenty minutes and leave the room.

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